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Khj responded perfectly to this . no rules were broken and your participation is greatly appreciated (as is the participation of all members).




I am also glad we can have some open discussions regarding not only stamps, but the site in general terms. Initially, when we started this site, we were way open to suggestions and links to newsletters and even other forums in a general without much thought or hesitation. as a result, we found ourselves quickly becoming an advertising platform for other sites and had very little participation here. we then went to the other extreme of this spectrum and took an iron grip on links and references to other sites. While this worked to keep the focus of discussion on Stamp Bears it did in the end hurt members and resulted in the loss of some great participants we would have otherwise had continue on with us.

In the end, we decided on taking a bit more of a middle ground. We do find the value of linking to other sites as a benefit to our members and also to Stamp Bears. a good reciprocal relationship always benefits both parties. But there is the catch. The relationship must be reciprocal. Even such a small thing as asking first establishes this relationship and acknowledges that you are acting as a participant in that relationship.

To be honest this part of the reason I have taken so long to reply to these types of posts and let the Administrating and Moderating team handle them. I would tend to act first (ban) and discuss later. My team has shown me the value of waiting it out a day or two and discussing these things carefully. (Whenever possible with all participants).

Normally not so publically (granted) but in this case I think there is value in discussing the pro's and con's of this topic.

I have no issue with the discussion so long as the following points are considered;

The conversation should never stray into the realm of bad form. That is to say no rude comments or personal attacks.

We are hearing (well reading) your opinions and taking them into consideration as we would with every member.

At the end of the day the Administrating and Moderating Team of Stamp Bears makes the final determination on enforcement and or changes to rules that apply to Stamp Bears and participation on this board.